I thought that if i let anyone in, they’d find out what was broken about me. And then not only would they know, i’d know too.
— Naoise Dolan, Exciting Times
Currently: February 2021

Currently: February 2021

There is a reason February is my favorite month of the year — apart from it being my birthday month. Oh wait, no that is the reason. I also share my birthday month with 2 other siblings and now my sister’s boyfriend, too! So it’s back to back to back celebrations and though it can be tiring for little old me, I do look forward to this at the start of every year.

Loving

  • All the love for my birthday. I know I say it every year but I don’t know why I felt it so much more so this year? Is this aging? Hormones? A bit of both? The family and friends that reached out and greeted me and sent things and just reminded me of just how loved I am and when I’m feeling emo and alone, I AM NOT! I hate that I need birthdays to be reminded of this but here we are anyway.

  • I took a bunch of days off for my birthday (which just so happened to preempt the Lunar New Year and though I couldn’t go anywhere, I’m so happy that the weather cooperated with me. Last year, it rained on my birthday. All day long. This year, the forecast was for another full day of rain, but I asked everyone in my life to pray for good weather and I got a solid six hours of sun while I ordered off every cocktail off the menu and read Barack Obama’s words. A promised land, indeed.

  • The last movie of the To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before trilogy came out the day after my birthday and we did a watch party with friends. It was nice to just indulge in the young love of Lara Jean and Peter K one last time. I type this out as I listen to LAUV’s I Like Me Better and really, the movie soundtrack is pretty damn awesome, too.

Working On

  • Incorporating a new park into my weekly walking routine! I recently discovered that I live near one entrance of the Botanic Gardens and it’s quite pretty and a 5KM walk end to end and back! I could always use another outdoor walk in my life, so this was pretty awesome to find out!

  • Expanding my cooking repertoire! A whole lot of my gifts this year were cooking-related and I’m so excited to use all my goodies, from blenders to pots and pans and aprons and a Yotam Ottolenghi cookbook that’s supposed to be simple but knowing me, it’ll be difficult! But I’m so excited to use it!

Anticipating

  • Formula One (and Drive To Survive Season 3) comes back into my life in March! And now that I have Raman and Denise to bother/bug/visit whenever there’s a GP and Nikki to text about silly memes and our mutual annoyance at certain drivers, it just makes the experience so much more exciting. Oh I’ve missed it so!

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What Are We?

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