I thought that if i let anyone in, they’d find out what was broken about me. And then not only would they know, i’d know too.
— Naoise Dolan, Exciting Times
Rewind: January 2022

Rewind: January 2022

Well the start of the year certainly wasn’t how I thought it would go but I’m glad for it. With all the goals I set for myself, I’m glad that I was able to get some things done.

Loving

I can’t forget the lovely time I spent in nature with friends. Denise’s birthday was spent cleaning up a tiny section of Punggol Beach on a Sunday morning and having a picnic afterward and then spending the rest of the day with her adorable kids up at their place. Denise has been a wonderful friend and I’m always a third wheel to her and Raman. I’ve invited myself over to their place so many times to hang out and watch F1, too. So celebrating her birthday with her on a beach and doing the clean-up was definitely a highlight.

Working On

I put myself up for some roles in the company and those didn’t quite pan through so that was a bummer this month. I also noticed I was getting a bit sad and detached, so I’ve been proactively reaching out to folks I like to hang with and have been setting up drinks after work! I go to the office 3-4 days a week now, a big jump from my 1x a week last year so I’m trying to be more social again. Getting to know colleagues I wasn’t as close to proactively reaching out instead of waiting to be invited is a nice change of pace for a while.

FEELING

This month, I also hit my eighth year anniversary of my moving to Singapore without a job and it’s pretty nuts how much has happened since. Though I’m the sibling that moved to Singapore last, it still feels like it’s been a while and I’m quite thankful for all the wonderful things I’ve been able to experience by living here and I really try not to take it for granted. So thanks, Singapore, for letting me work and live in this country and here’s more more more years to come.

Goodbye, 35

Goodbye, 35

Baguettes, Bouillabaisse and Bisou

Baguettes, Bouillabaisse and Bisou